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Tips For Communicating With Your Divorce Attorney


If you are going through a divorce a strong line of communication with your divorce attorney is essential to navigate it successfully. Here are some tips for communicating with your divorce attorney:

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  • Choose the Right Communication Channel – Your attorney can be reached through various channels like email, phone, Zoom, or in-person meetings. For complex matters, consider using phone or in-person communication to ensure a thorough discussion.
  • Be Open and Honest – Honesty is paramount. Even if a topic feels uncomfortable or embarrassing, it’s crucial to share all relevant information with your attorney. Attorney-client conversations are protected by confidentiality, ensuring that your disclosures remain private.
  • Clearly Define Your Goals – Clearly communicate your objective for the divorce, whether they involve child custody, property division, or spousal support. Your attorney needs to know what matters most to you to provide the best advice.
  • Prepare Questions in Advance – Before meetings, prepare a list of questions or concerns related to your divorce. This will help you make the most of your time with your attorney and ensure you address all your doubts.
  • Listen to Legal Advice – While your input is valuable, remember that your divorce lawyer possesses legal expertise. Take their advice seriously, as it’s rooted in their experience and knowledge of the legal system.
  • Establish a Communication Plan – Discuss your preferred mode of communication with your attorney, whether it’s in-person meetings, emails, or phone calls. Make sure both you and your attorney are on the same page regarding communication expections.
  • Maintain Organized Records – Keep a well-organized record of all documents and communications with your attorney. These records can serve as a valuable reference and help ensure nothing is overlooked.
  • Maintain Professionalism – Treat your attorney with respect and professionalism. Divorce is emotionally charged, but staying calm and courteous during interactions will facilitate better communication.
  • Avoid Emotional Outbursts – Keep your emotions in check during discussions with your attorney. Emotional outbursts can hinder effective communication and potentially complicate the divorce process.
  • Ask for Clarification – If something isn’t clear, don’t hesitate to ask for clarification. Understanding the legal aspects of your divorce is vital for informed decision-making.
  • Respect Your Attorney’s Time – Be punctual for meetings and respect your attorney’s time. This demonstrates your commitment to a productive working relationship.

Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful attorney-client relationship during divorce proceedings. By following these tips, you can ensure that your attorney has all the necessary information to represent your interests effectively. Remember, open and honest communication is not just a suggestion; it’s the key to achieving the best possible outcome in your divorce case.

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Rebecca MedinaAbout the Author: Rebecca Medina

Rebecca Medina is an experienced Family Law attorney, mediator and Collaborative Divorce Lawyer serving the Fresno and San Diego areas. She handles cases ranging from complex divorce matters to child custody, spousal support, prenuptial/postnuptial agreements, QDROs and uncontested divorce cases. She was rated “Clients’ Choice” by Avvo.

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